My relationship lesson...

I guess ordeal that my relationship taught me something serious and important about 2 person being together..

Seriously, its almost impossible to prevent anyone from choosing another person over you.. because there is always a pre-existing component in relationship thats call "personal preference". This is partly because there is always someone better than you out there and its your partner's personal preference together with a combination of other small factors that will cause inclination towards the so called 3rd party.

And in my earlier post I don't blame her for acting in such manner is truth. I do blame myself for a good part of the reason that this has happened.. largely, the amount of time i can spare out of my busy work schedule to be with her.

And its a constant struggle when it comes to spending time with her.. The principle consideration about spending time with her freely is to prevent her from being overly reliant on me. Its not wrong to be dependant on me.. but she is growing up.. thats the main point. independence to adult hood don't really happened when it comes with dependency.. This is something she might not knows...

I dare say that we are in a very strong relationship.. looking at how quick we recover from the ordeal for the last 2 weeks or so.. though not 100 percent yet. but it will be at a much faster time that I originally expected..

Our comitment to each other is much stronger.. and our love strengthen beyond what it was as compared to maybe 1 months back.. This really teaches me that a relationship is really brittle like a piece of glass.. the only differences is what kind of glass is your relationship like? all glass breaks on impact.. but is your piece of glass a bullet proof glass that absorb impact? or a piece of vehicle windscreen that breaks but not totally shattered? or a piece of water glass that shattered into pieces when dropped onto floor?

I figured that mine was a piece of windscreen glass.. it shattered.. but most part of it is still pretty much intact as one whole piece..

Love you sweetie.. we learn.. its our lesson... for us to look back.